The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck - Mark Manson

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

By Mark Manson

  • Release Date: 2016-09-13
  • Genre: Self-Improvement
Score: 4.5
4.5
From 2,255 Ratings

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#1 New York Times Bestseller

Over 1 million copies sold

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, s**t is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.

There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.

Reviews

  • Amazing

    5
    By Roman roman roman
    This was the very first book I read since out of high school and I’m only 20. I thought I’d giving reading a shot and that this be my first book. No regrets in reading this book. Very inspiring and gives a good perspective on your life.
  • Good start

    4
    By Deadskull00
    If you’re just getting into self help books this is a good place to start, it has a lot of basics that get covered.
  • I got hooked

    5
    By MrChaleWho
    I picked up the book started reading the first pages, and found myself liking the book. Has some great views and it’s straight to the point
  • What to give a f*ck about

    5
    By Carlton_Nic
    The book is a good read all around. I liked the authors perspective on several different areas in life. However, I was interested when he tells the reader where you energy should be focused and he points out that we must focus on specific values. A very good read for anyone who just needs something very inspirational to read.
  • Very insightful

    5
    By code_blk
    Great read. Very honest and eye opening. I’ll probably read it again, and probably again after that.
  • Speeches

    5
    By Booise Mac
    Very informative & entertaining!
  • Just what i needed

    5
    By Am2daber
    Sometimes it’s nice to have it given to you straight. This made me want to consider another point of view! Loved it. It was just what i didn’t know i needed!
  • Awesome!

    5
    By Manny Jordan 23
    Book was by far a very eye opening experience. It spoke to me in volumes, thank you to the author for this amazing work!
  • Good Read

    5
    By gabegonzo64
    Helps you look at things in a different way! liked reading it and easy to read and understand. makes you think about some good stuff
  • Brilliant

    5
    By Albra'aMoh'd
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